Be the unexpected perspective. 

People change. 


Read it again:

People CHANGE. 

That is unless you back them into a corner… A defensive posture them precludes them from considering an alternative posture. 

WTF does that mean..?

Simple… Adults get new information every day. Meet new people. Are open to new ideas. Minds that are open are susceptible to change

Minds on both sides of any issue. 

Minds are closed when people get defensive. 

People get defensive when their current position is called I enlightened or archaic or stupid. 

Anyone gets defensive if the opinions they currently hold dear are called any of those things. 


So… Let’s not assume that anyone’s current (I keep using that word because my opinions, perspectives and beliefs in many subjects have often been changed in a heartbeat by being open to someone else’s truth) position is going to last forever (or your current position for that matter).

To my LGBT friends you have earned your place in history as the most effective human rights group ever to join hands against oppression. You have come a long way and made great progress. 

You have caused people to think… Rethink… Change. 

To my straight friends who are still in turmoil over the issue… I don’t think it really effects you but perhaps my change in perspective on the issue will cause you to reconsider. 

Focus, John. Focus.. (Yes… I even talk to myself when blogging!)

Don’t assume that our new leadership (or a portion of it) will be your future enemy even if history suggests that will be the case. 

People change. 

Especially people who inadvertently come in contact with an unexpected truth other than or different from their own. 

Be that point of contact. 

Be the unexpected perspective that they never thought they would or could possible understand or have empathy for. 

Be a mind opener. 

People with open minds change. 

I did. 

I would not have if I remained cemented in a defensive posture. 

Love creates an atmosphere of understanding. Of  compassion. Of higher learning. Of change. Love changes everything. 

I am speaking, of course, of our VP elect Michael Pence. Regardless of his history don’t assume he is your enemy and most certainly don’t push him into a defensive posture and MAKE him one. 

People change. 

People change. 

You, me, us, them, WE…



Inward and onward!


One thought on “Be the unexpected perspective. ”

  1. John, You have experienced so many conflicting issues, irrational people, or questionable events in your lifetime. You have the courage to open your mind and heart to other points of view. We cannot judge everyone based on our simple experiences. Only by embracing our brothers and sisters from different areas can we truly evolve as human beings. I hope I am more open to suggestions and try not to criticize an alternate lifestyle or homeless situation. This recent election has brought out much hatred and chaos, yet others have managed to understand and bring wisdom to their friends and associates. If we consider changes, we allow the challenges to overcome our former convictions. Indeed, we must find an awareness within ourselves to accept whatever may be around us and have enough common sense to change a staid point of view that may be based on old, biased information. I applaud your acknowledgement of the sensitivily found in other people, lifting your spirit and accepting new ideas

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